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The hidden addiction driving us to burnout
👋 Hi! I'm Dan. I help makers, artists, entrepreneurs, and creatives find the clarity and motivation to get their work out into the world. If that sounds good, let's go! 🚀
Hi Reader,
In 2022 I was running a venture studio building multiple SaaS products.
(Maybe that's how you found your way here even)
We had one software that was doing great.
It had done more than $500k in its first year and change.
Then it hit a wall.
So I pushed harder.
Then one of my business partner stepped away.
So I pushed harder.
I told myself: "the only way out is through”
And I pushed even harder.
The more I see the pattern, the more I see how my work was like an addiction:
- Obsession.
- Persistent desire for more.
- Continued effort despite negative symptoms.
- Etc.
Here’s the thing:
For me, it’s not the work itself.
I wasn’t addicted to the work.
I doubt many people are.
“Workaholism” is a misnomer.
What is it then?
It’s control.
It’s addiction to a particular future.
It’s obsessive and relentless pursuit of a particular version of success.
The truth is this:
I’m addicted to my dreams and ambitions.
And I know I’m not alone.
I can spin it as good:
I’m a hustler.
I’m resilient.
I don’t quit easy.
I’m a high achiever.
All of those are true.
But every strength has a dark side.
And I’m getting to know mine.
There’s good news.
In recovery they say:
Be ambitious. Go after big things.
But hold it all loosely.
And be ready to let it all go.
Practice detachment and meditating on the death of your dreams.
This is a reminder to myself.
I hope it does the same for you.
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📰 The Death of The Meaning Movement ☠️ - On creativity, risk, death, and what it means to be fully alive.
From LinkedIn:
📰 Highlights from 2023 - The single most consistently helpful action you can take for your life, career, and business is to review .
Studies have been done on this.
Goals without context don’t stick....
📰 You can fix the root cause of burnout this year.
It’s easy.
But most don't want to hear it.
📰 This year: Let it be easy - my theme for 2024.
Things I'm enjoying:
📘 Raj Lulla's Novel
If you've listened to the podcast, you know Raj.
He's a close friend, brand strategist, and writer. He wrote a fun and touching novel about fatherhood. It's called The Caring House and it comes out soon.
It gives me hope that I can be a good dad and that I'm not defined by my lowest moments.
Anyone who knows a father, has a father, is a father, or who might ever be one should read it. Without question.
The book comes out in a couple months and he's donating all of his pre-orders to an incredible charity. Join his list, follow along, and buy the book here.
Newsletter: https://www.rajlulla.com
Preorders: https://amzn.to/3SwaI2K
You'll hear more from me about it in the coming weeks. But for now jump on his mailing list and get the book. I promise you won't regret it.
✉️ Jay Papasan's newsletter (the Twenty Percenter)
Jay is a friend, thought leader, and author who writes about leadership & productivity. I love his easy to read insights. Click below to give his newsletter a try:
Anything great you've been enjoying? Send it along! I'd love to know.
Yours in meaning making,
PS- I'm working on rebooting the podcast and hope to have semi-regular newsletters landing in your inbox.
In the meantime, hit reply. I'd love to hear what you're excited about making/creating/doing in this season of life. I can't always respond, but I promise I read every email.
Dan Cumberland
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Hi! 👋 I'm Dan. I write for entrepreneurs who want to harness AI without losing their humanity. Join 10,000+ readers who are learning to combine cutting-edge technology with emotional intelligence, building businesses that serve life, not consume it. Raw insights, practical strategies, and real talk about the journey ahead.
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